this may be the scariest thing i have ever encountered as a mom. one of my trips - C - fell about 6 feet & landed flat on her back on a hard wood floor. were camping in a cabin & she was climbing down from a loft & lost her footing. She didn't loose consciousness & screamed right away. As a nurse & a mother, that scream is the most welcome sound in the world. Still, she was writhing around it what looked like so much pain, i was concerned about a spinal fracture. After calling 911, the ambulance was there very quickly. The paramedics examined her & decided there was no immediate emergency but took us to the hospital to be sure. By that time, C was able to talk & told us she didn't hit her head. Her complaint was her lower back.
The dr in the er checked her out & ordered an X-ray. After 3 hours in the ER, & C refusing 4 times to let them get an x-ray, it was fairly apparent
that she wasn't hurt.
But then the crotchety old dr comes in
& says to me "it's really unusual for a 4 year old not to listen to
her mother". as if I'm a bad mother who has no control of her child. I
told him that if it were something i could hold her down for, i would.
unfortunately a back x-ray is something she needs to be willing to do
because she has to stand perfectly still with no one holding her. WTF, has he ever met a 4 year old? especially 1 in a strange place being asked to do something she has never done before?
Thankfully, she really is OK. I took her to the chiropractor a couple of days later (this happened on a camping trip in another state) & he said he could feel where the back was compacted & under stress, but that he also didn't think she had done any real damage. It's amazing how resilient kids can be.
It really was the worst experience in my 5 1/4 years of pregnancy & motherhood. Here's hoping a i can get a minimum of 5 1/4 years before the next scare.
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